This is a harsh reality that we live in a selfish world where people would do everything to accomplish their objectives. They will try to use the emotions and feelings of others in order to fulfill their own desires or expectations by any means. In reality, all they do is to care about themselves. Think of selfishness as being aware of the need to take care of yourself. The best analogy out there is to think of the flight attendant’s instructions in case of an emergency on the plane. “Put your oxygen mask on before you assist others.” Because, if you can’t breathe and function, you’ll be of no use to anyone else.
So, here’s some benefits of learning to be selfish:
1. It upgrades your personality
Anyone who has run themselves ragged tending to everyone else’s demands knows that it is a surefire way to become bitchy, cranky, and reactive. If you give yourself the attention you need and deserve, you automatically handle all the rest of the “stuff” around you easier and with more grace.
2. It leads to a positive life
Personal happiness can be achieved through working hard, always learning and achieving goals. There is absolutely no room for fear or self-doubt in that equation. Following whatever passion you have in life will lead you to your own definition of success.
3. There is no way to go it alone
Being selfish isn’t gaining as much as you can; it’s acquiring value to your life. And eventually, you’ll learn what that means to you. We should never have to settle for mediocre lives. For starters, try being positive. It’s both a life hack and magical formula.
4. Go the extra health mile
Putting other people’s priorities before your own does not make you a good person. It does not make you selfless. By putting yourself in second place constantly, you indirectly harm others without even realizing it. When you’re burned out, exhausted, and resentful, you can’t be your best for anyone or anything.
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