It is February 12th, the sixth day of Valentine week, and do you know what is it? It’s kiss day. A day to show some love with a kiss. The gesture can be sweet, simple and memorable, when you can express what words can’t. A kiss depicts physical intimacy in a relationship. It’s like taking the next step in a relationship, starting it with a first kiss or a surprise kiss. But let’s not try making it all cheesy here, keeping it simple yet lasting for a lifetime.
Tell them, “Everytime you go through a difficult time, I promise to brush all your worries away with my kisses.”
Here is how you can make your first kiss magical and memorable:
Move ahead only with their consent and respect
There has to be a consent of your partner, whenever you try to move ahead with any kind of physical acts with them. There has to be an attainable level of intimacy among you two, that does not brings any kind of hesitation or uncomfort. A prior consent will make it beautiful, appreciated and won’t turn things go out of hand. Even if a little surprising, it should not come out of the blue for them. If you are not sure about it, do not take anything as a signal. It is better to ask them clearly and then move ahead.
Opt for a perfect setting
A kiss can be even more perfect at the perfect setting. What say? And if it is your first, then surely it has to be even more special. Plan out a perfect setting, a quiet destination and spot where it gets captured in your memories for a lifetime. It can be in the moonlight, under the stars, alongside a beach with a candlenight dinner, on your rooftop or balcony, on a long drive, on the side of a lake or simply on a private date. You just have to plan it out, that where will your partner feel the happiest. Also, take care that you both feel comfortable and safe at the place you choose.
Start it with a gift
Try making the date memorable, before you start on with the kiss. Presents will make the date all adorable for your partner. A few ideas can be some customized articles that say their name or I love you in Morse code or 13 reasons why I love you keepsake. You can try out having some unique experiences like pottery, cooking together, or any other that your partner loves to. It can be something that depicts your most loved and cherished moments together. You can even plan out a surprise for them and conclude it with a kiss.
Be sincere with your gesture
Your romantic gestures should be sincere towards your partner, this comes along with consent. They should never feel uncomfortable around you. Keep the kiss heartfelt, and bring it without any kind of rush for it. There are times when out of passion and the urge to take things forward, people ruin beautiful moments. Likely said earlier, there has to be a sense of sincerity, an innocence that gives them security and warmth around you.
Keep it all authentic
It is the genuine attitude of yours that will be accepted by your partner. Keeping it real, authentic away from any kind of cliches or notions that everybody follows is what you should try to. Real, genuine first kiss will surely last in your memories for a lifetime, even if it is a peck on their cheeks!
Write a love letter or a love note
You can express what you are feeling these days to your partner by writing them a love letter or a small note. Through the letter, you can also seek their permission or consent for the kiss. The love note will be your sweetest gesture of love, that certainly speaks volumes about what you mean to them and exactly how you are feeling for them. Surely, the presents do mean a lot, but a handwritten letter is something of the real magic.
Make them a playlist
Yet another sweetest, gushy thing from you. Make them a playlist of their favorite songs. And present it on your date. You both can dance to it together, in each others arms. Then kiss slow, again keeping it real and genuine. They will surely love a personalized playlist idea of yours and will appreciate it. When the moment feels right to you, go ahead with your first kiss, the playlist doesn’t needs a pause.
So you now have your perfect date idea ready, with your kiss plans set at the right moment, with the right feel. But do make sure there is no rush, no uncomfort or blunder with the idea of your first kiss. Just keep it organic, and say it all with your first kiss, making it a once in a lifetime moment for you and your partner!