6 sexual tips for anal sex for beginners

May 05 2019 05:29 PM
6 sexual tips for anal sex for beginners

If you want to experiment with anal sex, do not rush to join the big game right away. We tell a few basic things, that your pair you need to know before, you try " forbidden fruit", that all was well. First of all - to you.

It shouldn't hurt

It hurts only if done incorrectly. Many women enjoy anal sex and experience an orgasm. If you start slowly and carefully, with small objects - like fingers and sex toys, gradually passing to those, that a little more, and use a special lubricant, and you'll be excited and are not going to be afraid, embarrassed or shrink, it will not hurt.

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Well, of course, the mere fact, that your partner wants to add this kind of sex for sex in your menu today, it should not be a surprise for you. If he wants this, let him warn in advance so that you can prepare: empty your intestines and maintain personal hygiene. Otherwise, besides the aesthetic side of the issue, the sphincter will not be so elastic, and this can really provoke pain.

This should be planned.

Almost all the “ guides” in sex agitate us to “ turn off the head” and indulge in rampant sex. All this, of course, wonderful. Only one thing: anal sex - the only one, where you need to turn your head! More precisely, in preparation for it, and then you will notice, what pleasure can give the same forbidden fruit, which you afraid to even think!

The only and most important rule of preparation for anal sex says: he never, under any circumstances, is not accidental or spontaneous. In a sense, it is necessary to prepare for it in order to avoid bitter mistakes: discomfort, psychological barriers, diseases.

Anal sex is not for the silent

Communicate with your partner - a key factor for those, who decided to try for myself anal sex. The only way to understand, that all goes according to plan - is to be completely honest with each other, as well as to prevent, when you feel uncomfortable, or simply decided not to do " it" right now. Yes, this also happens, so by no means keep silent about your desires! After all, sex against the will never bring pleasure.

If something does not suit you, you are scared or sick - stop this event. No, you don't owe anything to a man, even if five minutes ago you longed to have anal sex with him. 

Condom - a must-have accessory

Yes, pregnancy and anal sex are unrelated concepts. However, you will need condoms! Because they protect not only from pregnancy, but also from infections. In this situation, even they still need, than normal sex. First, the risk of infection is higher, and we must protect ourselves from them. Secondly, what if you want to switch to vaginal contact? It will be enough to change the condom to a new one - and you are ready to continue.

Do not forget about lubrication

Overdo it too is not necessary, but a bit of a special lubricant, water or silicone-based, applied to the anus ( not in the intestine!), Will prevent gaps, reduce the likelihood of pain and increase the pleasure.

If you are afraid that it will hurt - use only special painkillers for anal sex. Lubricants reduce pain, and anesthetics reduce sensitivity. If the skin is numb, you can not feel, that there is something, not that, and missed serious injury anus.

It is not recommended to use petroleum jelly, baby cream, and other fatty substances: latex condoms are torn from them, they are quickly absorbed and stop working, and the oily feeling on the skin is not pleasant.

Be consistent

Do not try to do it on the first try. Especially if you are not completely sure of your desire to engage in anal sex. To begin with, including your fingers and tongue in your standard menu: let the man first caress the back entrance with his fingers ( preferably in lubricant) or give you oral pleasure. This will help to relax and learn to trust a partner.

Do not forget about the clitoris

Stimulate the clitoris on your own or with the help of a partner: it will also help you relax and get maximum pleasure.

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