Like Rahul in Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, we too believe: “Pyaar dosti hai.” Love and friendship are closely related, they might be first cousins or something? You might be the bestest of friends but sometimes a fight can break that bond beyond repair. If you thought a breakup hurts more, y’all have not experienced a lifelong dosti come to an end.
1. It’s alright to cry
Boys will come and go but your best friend is your best friend. A fight, especially a friendship-threatening one, has all the reasons in the world to warrant a crying sesh.
2. If the fight is recent then be patient and give it time
You might not be able to see your friend’s perspective and vice-versa but the more patient you are, the more chances of it getting better.
3. Do not spend time on finding an immediate replacement
If you’re in a situation where you’re obviously missing your BFF, do not let your ego go looking for an immediate replacement.
4. Thank yourself for trying
Sending sorry texts, explanations or trying to meet them aside, if you see them being distant and cold, there’s not much you can do. It’s alright to feel frustrated by the process, as long as you thank yourself for trying.
5. Remember, things will get better in the future
Pakka promise! No matter how bad the current situation seems, how bad the fight is--end mein, humare picturon ki tarah, hamare life mein bhi sab thik ho jaata hai. SRK to the rescue, always!
6. Most importantly, forgive
It’s better and easier to understand, forgive and move on instead of holding a grudge and justifying it. Forgiveness does not warrant that you forget what they’ve done or said but it does make the heart feel lighter!