Indian cricket opener Shikhar Dhawan is currently in the news. In fact, he has separated from his wife Aesha Mukerji. Aesha herself has said this in an Instagram post. On the other hand, Shikhar has not spoken about divorce so far. Tell all of you that this was Aesha Mukerji's second marriage and she has been divorced once before. Today, Aesha shared her experience and difficulties by posting a series of posts after her divorce from Shikhar Dhawan. You can see how words can have such powerful meanings and connections, Aesha wrote about divorce in her Instagram post. I have experienced it as a divorcee before. I was very scared of my first divorce. I felt as if I had failed and was doing so wrong at that time.
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She further wrote, 'I felt like I had humiliated everyone and felt very selfish. I felt as if I had humiliated my family. Have let down their children and even humiliated God. Divorce is a very bad word.' At the same time, she wrote, 'Now just imagine, I have to go through this path for the second time. Wow. It's very scary. The experience of divorce for the first time made me feel that a lot was at stake the second time as well. I had more to prove. It was a really scary experience for me to break up my second marriage. Its fear, failure, and disappointment are 100 times higher. What does it mean to me? How does all this define me and my married life?'
She further wrote, 'Well, once I went through this halt and sat down and looked at myself, I felt fine. In fact, I was doing right. It felt as if my fear had disappeared. I felt very strong. I realized that I had done to myself the meaning I gave to the word fear and divorce. So once I realized it I started defining the word divorce and experience it the way I wanted to see and experience it.' She also wrote: "Divorce means choosing oneself and not sacrificing your own life for marriage. Divorce means you try your best and sometimes your better effort doesn't work, but that's fine too. Divorce means my relationships were very good which taught me a very good lesson to move forward in new relationships. Divorce means I am stronger than I thought, and in reality, divorce means what you give it.'' In another post, Aesha wrote, 'I work with many women who are feeling afraid of ending a relationship during or after a divorce. Is that the case with you? If so, I want to tell you that it is very normal. Don't think that you are going through this path alone or something has gone very wrong with you. Nothing has gone wrong with you. Sometimes things and people move away from your life because they are no longer associated with you. Relationships sometimes break down because they are based on your stay connected. Sometimes relationships break down because people start feeling strange and uncomfortable with circumstances and have to think to choose aside. Many relationships break down because they are not too strong to start.''
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At the same time, she writes: "Sometimes relationships break down because it can be decided by divorce. Relationships sometimes end because you actually overtake each other. There are many reasons for a change in the relationship or its breakdown. So it is better not to judge people. Accept this as a part of the change and move on. After this happens you allow new relationships to come into your life. They give space to new friends in life. Some old relationships are even deeper. New people will appear and meet. You will feel a deep connection with yourself.''
At the same time, in her third post, Aesha wrote, 'What do you do to feel good? Do you have a daily practice of recharging yourself or taking care of yourself? Do you prefer your health or being right? One thing I do every day is to go between nature and land myself. There are many advantages and powerful qualities hidden in nature. I spend a lot of time in the midst of nature and inspire my children to do the same.'
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