Journey of family begins with happiness but ends like this

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Apr 07 2022 10:49 AM
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Journey of family begins with happiness but ends like this

As much as it sounds good to hear the word family, in fact, this word has equal importance. Many times people say that what is a family after all and how does this family run? So those people must know about this, that there is no limited number of families. Whatever the family may be, there are even 10 people in a family, so sometimes this family gets reduced to only 2 people. Today we will tell you all about family and its importance to you.

One who becomes happy even in small things.
Smiling every sorrow, he should drink it.
Tears don't spill in anyone's eyes, may the family become a shield in every trouble.

What family is: If the family is understood in simple terms, it is like a moving car. In which there are many things like many types of bends, pits, rivers, rivulets, seas and waterfalls. But the strength that is in the family to fight these things, that is, to face the difficulties, does not exist in anything in the world. For example, in this period of the pandemic, the one who is engaged in the service of others, regardless of their own lives, is the family. In which there is no distinction of caste, high and low, face every problem firmly, that is the family.

There are two wheels of the family's car: Yes, you have come to know what happens to the family, now you know why the wheels of this family's car are called husband and wife... The husband and wife are the seeds of the family who work to give birth to a plant, face problems side by side in every happiness and sorrow, and move their world forward. Even if there is a dispute between the husband or wife about anything, they still take care of their family. No one's ears don't even let the news that they are having a rift among themselves. Sometimes one of the wheels of this car is weak, then the other also takes its weight on itself. But when everything is going well and only then between the wheels of this car is a nail, a piece of glass, or other things like a man, which will become a hindrance in the journey of the car. Then the trouble begins to happen, even the biggest trust is shattered. In fact, that is to say, if a third comes between the husband and wife, like if the husband starts having an affair with another woman, a girl. Or if the wife's heart likes something else. From there the problem with the wheels of this car of the family starts. Even after handling it many times, this relationship does not work.

Children are the beauty of the family: Children are the part of the family, which comes out of the seed and is born as small plant. The happiness of every family is doubled by the birth of children. Not only this, parents take all their responsibilities from raising children to raising them. Whenever the child cries... Then the mother leaves all her work and comes to silence her, whenever the child insists on something... The father makes one day and night for his every stubbornness because the innocent does not know whether my father is rich or poor, his father's business or he is a labourer with someone... That child just has to fulfil his stubbornness. In front of the innocence of the child, all the gums of the house begin to fade. But when the same child becomes ill, it is as if the parents lose their rest of the day and the sleep of the night. Parents spend their whole life in just one hope in the upbringing of that child, and they think that our child will grow up and light up the name of our family, becoming support for our old age. But what do those parents know that they send to study in many big countries like London, America, USA? When the child grows up and reads... And when they become a big person, they don't care about their parents, they just their enjoyment. Drunk... In the party pub, etc., all his money starts to waste, why he only thinks that his parents have done so much for him that all his life will go out comfortably. But they forget that their life will go away, but they themselves do not know what will happen to their future generation. When parents become old and destitute. This is the stop of time when every parent feels that their child will now take care of them, understand their anger, support their living, wake up at night when their health deteriorates, the way they used to wake up for him... But what they know is that as they're thinking, nothing is really going to happen. Their children will not take care of them... And they won't take care of them. But it all feels good only in a dream... If this happens in reality, then the old age of every parent is saved.

When the marriage of the children is done, then the behaviour changes like this: Every parent has the same dream that whenever our child is married, then in a good family, the educated daughter-in-law should come who has been standing with our child in every step of the house. Moved on the shoulder to shoulder with everyone in trouble. But when their cherished dreams are shattered, they... It appears as if the world itself is over. Why when the child stops taking care of his parents and starts getting angry at every little thing of them, then they realize that what we considered to be the star of our eyes for so many years has cooled all our arms.

There is a lot of confusion in the family: If everything is good in the family, but, if there is a rift between the members of the family over small things, then the family starts breaking up on the same day. It is not necessary that the cause of clashes in the house is big, many times the children sit in fight of the children, even the elders sit in the fight of the children, and in anger, they take such a step, due to the effect of which the whole family is shaken. If things are explained with a little understanding and an attempt is made to correct that mistake, then perhaps the effect of peace instead of unrest in the house will be seen to be greater. There are some cases where when the parents get their child married, treat the daughter-in-law who has come home like a daughter, but she does not consider them like her parents at all and give them a back answer on everything. To humiliate them... To call them bad... Showing down the in-laws in front of your family also becomes the cause of confusion in the family. Not only that, this fire grows so much that many families take over at the same time, and the result is only one... Ruin.

Whenever there is a partition in the family then the parents are divided: One thing to note is that whenever the story in any family starts with a quarrel and comes to the partitions, now along with the partitions of the house, many things of the house are also divided, the happiness of the house, the dream of the old parents is everything. This is divided into buckets. Many times, children also divide their parents, for example- if there are 4 children in the house, then according to the month of the year, the parents also get divided, in which it is said that for 3 months of the beginning of the year, the parents have someone, then after that, after that, with another child, many times the mother and the father have their own in the house of different children. Life has to be lived. But in this partition, children must forget that the real happiness of their home is turning into despair. The grief of the parents does not appear to them in front of their selfishness, they just want that they should share.

Help in the trouble of your loved ones: The family is also called a family because every single member of that family stands by it in every problem, no matter what kind of trouble it is. A good member is also identified by his qualities and deeds. If the son of the house leaves his parents in trouble and cuts off the edge, then what will happen to the hearts of those poor parents? And because of this, many times parents are forced to separate their children. Just think... Sometimes any of your family members suddenly fall ill... Or he is fired from his job... Or you go bankrupt in your own business. So what will you do in such a situation? They will leave with them, or think about getting them out of trouble by becoming their sympathizer in their hour of trouble. But even today, there are many families in India who are connected to their family members only in some way or the other. Yes, someone wants the land of the father and grandfather, then somebody wants business, sometimes someone is connected only to his family for money, as long as his parents help him in every way, he stays with them. Otherwise, who is his own says that?

From childhood to growing up, parents take care of every single desire of their child, fulfilling their every urge, and why not, after all, if there were children, then it is the beauty of the family, but when the same children grow up, And when the responsibility of handling the parents starts coming on them, then the same children start cutting off the edge from their own family. The growing age of the parents and their old age comes near, the children start feeling like a burden, their deteriorating health also disturbs the children. And again and again, they taunt them the same... Oh, let's live peacefully... How long will we carry your burden... Why don't you die... Why don't you go somewhere... Gina has become haram... Do office and household chores throughout the day and later bear the burden of it. After hearing so much, it is as if the life of the parents will come on the hand... Yet he loves his child as much as he used to do in his childhood. But still, when the burden of parents is not taken from the children, they see only one way, do you know what...? Old Age Ashram... Yes, a place where every child leaves to escape the burden of their parents... And never look at them again. Many times, the life of the parents comes to an end in the hope that their child will definitely come to meet them once. But it's said to happen.