We all have that one friend or relative who is too much possessive about their partner. Many of us are even possessive about our best friends. But you know what, over possessiveness sometimes takes your loved ones away from you. Nobody likes a continuous supervision over themselves. Mostly one has no idea that s/he is being over possessive for someone and when things go wrong they blame others for weakening their relationship.
Where over possessiveness comes from?
Possessiveness is a sign of insecurity and generally, stems from the lack of trust in a relationship. Controlling other is a common trait of a possessive partner. S/he started supervising for everything loke how to dress, how to behave in public or with friends etc. Whatever you do, they keep an eye on you. With whom you are talking, what are you talking about, who is texting you, how you are responding etc.
Sometimes people confuse possessiveness with caring but there is a slight difference between both the things. When someone's caring start annoying you it's a sign of him/her being overly possessive for you.
Experts say that one should understand the fine line between care and possessiveness for a harmonious relationship.
